It is tiring you more than your partner to surround love with some obligations. You have to get used to feeling emotions independently. You seem to be pushing your relationship a bit with your normality.
Your concerns that your independent personality is causing problems do not seem like an accurate determination. Unwarranted concerns about your job security will end with a business trip that you will be sent with great responsibilities in the near future.
You want full sovereignty over money issues. You will be interested in a partnership proposal from a surprise place. This can put you into big money accounts.
Many of the wrong judgments about you stem from incomplete recognition. You should explain yourself more than enough. A colleague who thinks you are a weak person can look for ways to put you in a difficult situation these days.


