He is afraid that the same things will happen because he knows your behavior in your previous relationships. The biggest fear is that you suddenly find someone else and walk away.
The possibility of leaving your workplace frightens everyone. Your workplace needs you, but you never need it. You know very well that there are other places where you can evaluate your energy and talents much better.
Your family doesn't understand why you have trouble getting along with the money you earn. They are not aware of your special expenses. You may need to inform them about this.
Your lover wants trust. For now, you should prove to him that your relationship is not in danger.


